the BMD-006 is correct, the KES-410ACA is correct, if by 'loading wheel' you mean the one in the upper right corner yes that's there.
i have not tried a DVD, i have tried burnt audio cd and an older ps3 game that any console should read (not that it makes a diff.)
and i am unfamiliar about this 'remarry" process... the original owner said something about me having to do this.. but i thought it was as simple as replacement parts and putting it in.
what should i try?.. i've don't so many little things i'm about to just give up.. thanks VERY much for your help as you seem to be the only user responding to my posts.