Ok, so, at this point it seems that I have it working correctly. In that I mean it appears to be downloading the Warhawk Beta (776mbs) as opposed to the Resistance Demo (865mbs) that I chose as a download in the PS Store.
What seemed to fix it for me was using the other PS3 Proxy, the one that enters all the IP info for you. Even though I had the other one setup with the same info this one told me it is using. Either way I won't complain.
Initially I could not get that PS3 Proxy to run, it gave me an error related to missing or corrupted files associated with - mswinsck.ocx - if anyone else is getting this error I fixed it by downloading the file and registering it.
Thanks for all the help to everyone.